Know what you want in a relationship
Do you want a relationship because you fear being lonely? Do you need someone to help pay the bills? If this is the case for any of these situations, you are in it for the wrong reasons.
It is a partnership - a partnership within which both people are fully invested, one in which they respect each other as equals, and one where they want the same things
Have a solid friendship
After all, with whom else do you share the most; have the most in common, or have chosen to share a life? Be a friend who shares trust, honesty, respect and dependability.
Be willing to give as well as take
Sometimes one partner may be going through a hard time with a career, health issue, or other challenges. In such situations everyone needs support, encouragement and understanding, especially from a loving partner.
Don't take each other for granted
To avoid getting into such a rut, set aside 20-30 minutes each day to talk to your partner about something other than chores, work, or pet peeves.
Communicate regularly
Be willing to admit when you're wrong or when you've been neglectful – or even when you feel neglected. Expressing feelings not only increases intimacy, it allows a couple to know each other better.
Be flexible and open to change
In a successful relationship two people grow together through the good, the bad, and eventful times.
Here are some successful relationship quick-tips:
- Stay connected
- Let go of ego, or the need to be 'right'
- Share humor
- Don't sweat the small stuff
- Ensure there is chemistry
Resources:
https://www.essentiallifeskills.net/successful-relationship.html
https://www.mind.org.uk/information-support/tips-for-everyday-living/loneliness/about-loneliness/
https://www.verywellmind.com/loneliness-causes-effects-and-treatments-2795749
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-is-the-fear-of-being-alone-2671883
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